If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, low, restless or emotionally drained, you may be wondering whether you are experiencing anxiety and depression, or one of them on its own. This is a very common question, and it does not always have a simple answer.
At Strive Therapy, we often support people who feel unsure about what they are experiencing but know that something does not feel quite right. Understanding the differences between anxiety and depression can be helpful, but you do not need a clear label or diagnosis before seeking support.
What anxiety can feel like
Anxiety is often associated with worry and fear, but it can show up in many ways. You might experience:
- Constant overthinking or racing thoughts
- Feeling on edge, tense, or unable to relax
- Physical symptoms like a tight chest, shallow breathing, or nausea
- Difficulty sleeping or switching off
- A sense that something bad might happen, even when things seem okay
Anxiety is often future-focused, your mind trying to protect you by anticipating problems, even when that protection becomes exhausting. The NHS provides further information about anxiety, fear and panic, including common emotional and physical symptoms.
What depression can feel like

Depression tends to affect mood, motivation, and how you experience daily life. Common experiences include:
- Persistent low mood or numbness
- Loss of interest in things you used to enjoy
- Feeling hopeless, empty, or disconnected
- Low energy and fatigue
- Changes in sleep or appetite
- Being very self-critical or feeling like a burden
Depression often pulls energy inward, making even small tasks feel heavy or overwhelming. You can also read the NHS overview of depression in adults for more information about symptoms, support and treatment.
Can you have anxiety and depression at the same time?

Yes, and many people experience anxiety and depression at the same time.
Anxiety and depression frequently overlap. You might feel constantly worried and tense while also feeling low, unmotivated or emotionally flat. Anxiety can be exhausting over time, which may contribute to depressive symptoms. Likewise, feeling low or hopeless can increase anxious thoughts.
Do I need a diagnosis to get help?
No. While diagnoses can be useful in some contexts, they’re not required to start therapy. What matters most is how you’re feeling and how it’s affecting your life. You can seek support for anxiety and depression whether or not either condition has been formally diagnosed. You can begin with a short clinical assessment to talk through what has been happening and consider what support might suit you.
Therapy isn’t about fitting yourself into a category, it’s about understanding your experiences, patterns, and emotional responses in a way that helps you feel more supported and less alone.
When is it a good idea to seek support?
You might consider online therapy for anxiety and depression if:
- Your thoughts or feelings feel hard to manage alone
- Your mood or anxiety is affecting work, relationships, or daily life
- You feel stuck in the same patterns
- You’re not sure what you’re feeling, but you know something needs attention
You don’t need to wait until things feel unbearable. Early therapy support can make a real difference.
How affordable therapy at Strive can help
At Strive Therapy, we offer affordable online therapy for anxiety and depression, as well as other emotional difficulties and overlapping experiences.
Our approach recognises that:
- Not everyone can access traditional private therapy
- Cost can be a real barrier to getting better help
- Online therapy can offer flexibility, privacy, and consistency
We provide:
- Low cost therapy options
- Flexible online therapy sessions across the UK
- A calm, non-judgemental therapeutic space
- Support for anxiety, depression, and overlapping experiences
Online therapy allows you to access meaningful support without travel, long waiting lists, or unnecessary pressure. You can also read about our counselling fees and payment options, including Strive Core and Strive Pro.
You don’t have to figure this out alone
If you are unsure whether you are experiencing anxiety and depression, or one condition on its own, that uncertainty is a valid reason to reach out.
Online therapy can help you:
- Make sense of your thoughts and emotions
- Understand patterns that keep you feeling stuck
- Develop ways to feel more grounded and supported
At Strive Therapy, we believe mental health support should be accessible, compassionate, and realistic.
Taking the next step
You don’t need a diagnosis.
You don’t need to be “sure”.
You don’t need to wait until things get worse.
If you’re curious about online low cost therapy, or whether Strive Therapy might be right for you, starting with an assessment is a gentle first step.
Support is available and it can be affordable, flexible, and human.

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